Do you remember my post recently about the Five Magical Words that lit a fire under my littlest one’s feet when it was time for bed? Here’s a little excerpt from that post…
(written after a post about a grumpy day and the boys not going to bed at a reasonable hour)
The boys went to bed on time last night and so did I. We’re all rested and ready to start the day. I was a little concerned when a few minutes after putting them to bed my littlest one came to the stairs and started the same thing he’s been doing the past couple of days… “Mommmmmy, can I….?” (fill in about 20 different questions to delay going to bed).
Then it happened, I said one little phrase that sent him running to his bed and had him asleep in less than 10 minutes… do you want to know what it was?
There was no yelling, no begging, no threatening, no spanking… nothing. Just 5 magical words that lit a fire under his feet. Are you ready for it? Here’s exactly what I said,
“Ohhh Nooo… I’m losing energy.”
{in a very dramatic, tired, battery draining kind of voice}
He RAN back to bed! I LOVE it! (continue reading about my implementation of Love and Logic’s Energy Drain Approach… a WONDERFUL tool for parents of all ages.)
That was just a small sampling of the Love and Logic that goes on around here. I am often heard saying, “I know.” “That stinks.” “Bummer.” and the infamous, “Uh-oh.” And my children have begun to say things to each other like, “I love you too much to argue.” ;)
If you’re not familiar, Love and Logic’s approach to parenting is to let your children make affordable mistakes when they’re young, so they won’t make unaffordable mistakes when their older. Instead of trying to keep your child from making mistakes, as a Love and Logic parent you want your children to make mistakes early on so they will learn from them. And with Love and Logic’s techniques you don’t have to get upset when they do make those mistakes, because you see them as GREAT learning opportunities! :)
Since becoming a parent I’ve had the great fortune of attending a Love and Logic Seminar, listening to their tapes and taking one of their classes (many school districts offer them for free, btw). I just LOVE what I’ve learned! Such valuable information to create a calm, loving and respectful home environment! Love and Logic is definitely my FAVORITE parenting tool out there!! So, since I am giving away my favorite things for my birthday, I talked with the GREAT people at Love and Logic Institute, Inc. and they have agreed to give one of you, my sweet readers, your very own copy of:
How To Raise Kids Who Make Responsible Decisions When Nobody Is Watching (DVD)!!
Learn the secrets of raising children who will make responsible decisions, when no one else is watching. Father and son parenting gurus, Jim Fay and Dr. Charles Fay, speak to the heart of middle America about the benefits of raising children the “Love and Logic” way.
You will laugh, you will cry, and you will learn why Jim Fay and Dr. Charles Fay are among the most beloved story-tellers of our time.
by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.
DVD :75 min. Price: $29.95
If you’re familiar with Love and Logic you know what a great resource this is! If you’re not familiar, I think you’ll be SO thankful for the wisdom you gain from watching it! I know I would LOVE to have it to watch! Oooh… if you’re in the DFW area and you win, could we have a DVD watching party?? :)
Ok, let’s get to the giveaway details…
To enter to win a How To Raise Kids Who Make Responsible Decisions When Nobody Is Watching (DVD):
- Leave a comment below telling why you’d like to win, or your favorite Love and Logic-ism.
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See what other GREAT GIVEAWAYS are ACTIVE or coming soon here! Happy Birthday, Rachel!!! ♥
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I told Rachel happy birthday. Great blog she has. I commented on her twenty 6 announcement post.
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Parenting is one of the most rewarding things that my husband and I get the honor of doing but it has its challenges at times. I would love to win because I think this would aid in our parenting!
i would love to win because i think this would help me parent my 3 year old.
I’m not familiar with Love and Logic so it would be nice to learn about it
Follow @LoveandLogic on Twitter
Subscribe to the Love and Logic Insider’s Club Newsletter
“Like” Love and Logic Institute on FB
I’d love this to better guide my niece and nephew
I would love to use more positive ways to teach and disipline my kids! hbi2010@yahoo.com
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